Notes From Tuesday, 14 October 2008
Sex And Marriage
This month is about half over in two days. Hope all is well with you. I am doing much better. Grace to you. Take Care.
This blog came to me on July 19, 2008. I thought to address my views on these subjects. Where do I stand on the issue of Sex and Marriage?
At the present time, I am a single woman. I have never been married. I’ve never been through child labor. But, I feel like I have some children. For the record: I’m not a lesbian nor a man hater.
I believe it is not late for me to get married. But having children at my age would be a miracle. May I add, I ought be married if I have a child.
On The Issue Of Sex:
I heard this phrase: SAFE SEX. The only safe sex that I can say is “NO SEX” at all. I am a single woman. I don’t have a license to have sex. I am in covenant with the living God. My body is the temple of God.
I haven’t made a commitment or said my vows with my future husband in front of an ordain minister of God. That’s call a holy covenant marriage between one man who is a male and his female wife who is a woman.
Once I am married than I have a license to have sex with my only alive husband in whom I have covenant with. And the two of us shall become one. We will be bonded together for life.
As a singled woman, the key to my sex life is guarded with high honor. I allow NO one to enter into my garden. My body is not mine.
Since I called upon Jesus Christ, the Son of the Living God, my body belong to Him. What I do with my body concerns Jesus. The word of God says, Do Not Fornicate. That’s sex outside of a holy covenant marriage.
Since I am not married –I am a single woman to me this means there is SEX NOT allowed. I would be breaking the law of God. I would be sinning…
Some of my thoughts on this subject: Being married takes a lot of WORK. I’ve heard so much about marriage. Being married is a commitment and a relationship with your spouse.
This relationship has be worked out and cultivated on a regular basis. There is the spending time with your spouse and so forth in becoming ONE. God made woman for the man, man for the woman.
I have been to church gathering that spoke on the subject of marriage. As a single person, I saw those gatherings as preparation for those who may get married someday. Well, my someday has not arrived or the fullest of time.
One day I said to God, all I hear about relationships are on marriage. What about being singled? I believed I heard in my spirit was to listen and take notes on a radio program.
On this program it was a verse by verse Bible Study on the Book of Songs of Solomon. There was only 2 thirty minutes segments on being singled. But I have a lot of information about marriage. I have an idea on what not to do as a singled woman.
In the mean time, I have no possible candidate for marriage. I believe that there is some guy out there for me. God has him picked out for me. Who ever he is. For now, I got my mind on Jesus. (I have a pre-arrange marriage.)
I say that I am spoken for. When that special someone comes into my life, Lord help me! May the grace of God be with me. And I ask You, LORD, He is the one LORD?
Father God, May those who are singled be kept pure and devoted to the Lord. May those who are married by faithful and devoted to their spouse. May we learn to be who we are suppose to be either married or singled in Jesus’ name Amen.
I will worship toward Your holy temple, And praise Your name. NKJV Psalm 138:2
The wise woman builds her house,
But the foolish pulls it down with her hands. NKJV Proverbs 14:1
Sex And Marriage…
NO Sex for the single; those never married, divorced or widowed.
The Gift of Holy Covenant Marriage has the blessings and anointing of God.
May we singles have the anointing to be single. And for those singles who desire to be blessed with the anointing to be married…let it be in the fullness of time.
Blessings to all.